Dear Joccie,
A while back I saw a picture of a piece of cake with the words “The Cake Is A Lie.” Something about this has stuck with me as I’ve started my new job, we’ve moved, and seemingly started our new lives. The idea that the cake is going to bring eternal happiness once we’ve eaten it, is the lie. It’s the same as thinking once I find a new job, or we move into a better house, or I make more money, or we have a new object or technology, our lives will be transformed into some kind of eternal bliss. We’ve slowly learned, one myth at a time, these are all lies. Read the rest of this entry »